@spalladino can confirm, but I am pretty sure that you cannot delegate your bond to another address.
The Relayer in Open Zeppelin Defender is its own wallet, separate than your personal one. It brings important security features for users of OZ Defender and you cannot merely import your personal Keep3r wallet into their system. It is a great place to start a new and fresh KP3R, this is why you see KP3R activation code in the example code in spalladino’s WIP documentation.
I believe you need to unbond your current KP3R and rebond on your Relayer wallet. This unfortunately takes 14 days and the call to unbond() on the smart contract also immediately removes your bonding, so you cannot get any K3PR bonding boost during that 14 days.
14 days is a lot of downtime, but keep in mind that KP3R is still young, so by the time you finish your unbonding and transition to using OZ Defender, the whole system will be easier to use, probably more profitable with more jobs, and the KP3R features more fully fleshed out.
One option you have is running jobs locally on your computer using Node.js and slowly unbonding and transitioning to Relayer, little by little, avoid downtime. This require a small degree of technical skill, but perhaps will become more accessible when I have a little more time to pump out some guides and scripts.